How to Be Popular
Most people would like to be popular with others, but not everyone can achieve this goal. What is the secret to popularity? In fact, it is very simple. The first step is to improve our appearance. We should always make sure that we stay in good shape and dress well. When we are healthy and well-groomed, we will not only look better but also feel better. In addition, we should smile and appear friendly. After all, our facial expression is an important part of our appearance. If we can do this, people will be attracted to our good looks and impressed by our confidence.
Another important step is developing more consideration for others. We should always put others first and place their interests before our own. It's also important to be good listeners; in this way people will feel comfortable enough to confide in us. However, no matter what we do, we must not gossip. Above all, we must remember to be ourselves, not phonies. Only by being sincere and respectful of others can we earn their respect. If we can do all of the above, I am sure popularity will come our way.
如何才能受人歡迎
大部分的人都想受人歡迎，但是并非每個(gè)人都能達(dá)到目標(biāo)。受歡迎的秘訣何在?事實(shí)上是很簡單的。步驟一，先改善我們的外表。我們得確保自己很健康，并且穿著體面。當(dāng)我們既健康又穿戴整齊時(shí)，不僅看起來更有精神，自己也會(huì)覺得好多了。此外，我們要保持微笑并表現(xiàn)得很友善。畢竟，臉部表情是外觀很重要的一環(huán)。如果我們能做到這一點(diǎn)，別人會(huì)被我們的美好外表所吸引，并對我們的自信印象深刻。
另一個(gè)重要步驟，就是培養(yǎng)對別人的體貼。永遠(yuǎn)以他人為重，并把別人的利益放在自己的利益之前。當(dāng)個(gè)好聽眾也是很重要的;如此一來，別人才能很自在地對我們吐露心事。然而，不管我們做什么事，絕對不要說閑言閑語。最重要的是，要做自己，不要當(dāng)虛偽的人。只有對人真誠又尊重時(shí)，才能贏得他人的尊敬。如果我們能做到以上幾點(diǎn)，我相信受人歡迎是指日可待的事。
Learn How to Say No
We've all been taught that we should help people. It is the right thing to do and will make us popular with others. It may even win us favors in return. However, we must be realistic. We can't say yes to every request. If we did, we would fail or go crazy for sure. Sometimes we simply don't have the time to help. In this case, we must know how to say no politely.
When we need to say no, here is one method we can try. First, we should tell the truth. If we really can't do something, we should just say so. Second, we should remember to refuse requests politely. We must communicate clearly, but must also be sincere and sympathetic. A true friend will understand. Finally, we must not feel guilty about saying no. Sometimes refusing others is the right thing to do. It can save ourselves, and them, a lot of trouble. In short, we cannot please everyone all the time. Refusing favors is a part of life.
學(xué)習(xí)如何說不
我們都被教導(dǎo)說，我們應(yīng)該要幫助別人。這是應(yīng)該做的事，而且這樣做會(huì)使我們受人歡迎。它甚至?xí)䴙槲覀冓A得一些回報(bào)。但是，我們必須要實(shí)際一點(diǎn)。我們不能答應(yīng)每一個(gè)要求。如果我們這么做，我們就一定會(huì)失敗或發(fā)瘋。有時(shí)候我們確實(shí)沒有時(shí)間去幫忙。既然如此，我們就必須知道如何有禮貌地說不。
當(dāng)我們需要說不的時(shí)候，有個(gè)辦法我們可以試試。首先，我們應(yīng)該要說實(shí)話。假如我們真的辦不到某件事，我們就應(yīng)該說不。第二，我們應(yīng)該記得要客氣地拒絕對方的要求。我們必須清楚地表達(dá)，但態(tài)度也必須真誠并且表示同情。一個(gè)真正的朋友會(huì)諒解的。最后，我們不必為了說不而覺得有罪惡感。有時(shí)候拒絕別人才是我們應(yīng)該做的事。它可以替我們自己和別人，都省下許多麻煩。總而言之，我們無法一直取悅每個(gè)人。拒絕請求是人生的一部分。
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